I bought a large wood hairbrush at Target that we have used. I can have quite a temper and the only way I calm down is with a good old fashioned otk spanking. I asked him to hold me accountable and to discipline me when necessary. By taking me over his knee, he is assuring me that he will not let me, my mistakes or anything destroy us. He likes to be the one to bare my bottom or sometimes he tells me I need a bit of humility and asked me to get totally undressed. I bring him the special hairbrush he uses. Anyone out there in Des Moines?
It took us several months to get this going but I am happy to report that our marriage is back on track and blossoming and has never felt better for either of us. But in this kind of relationship, you are compelled to want to be submissive after a spanking! He remained very quiet with us. He now will not hesitate to take the back of a good sized hairbrush to my backside. Invest in a silent tool like a Loopy Johnny or a plastic hanger will work.
My Wife spanks me!: What a spanking is like for me.
Erotic spanking may be exactly what your marriage needs! She lays me down on the bed over some pillows and I'm treated to rubs, pinches, tickles etc. I received a spanking last Sunday morning. I carried a lot of guilt over this fact. She seemed to be a natural born Domme.
They got me pretty quickly and you needed two people to pull me off him. DD should be consensual and rules made clear. How do you even live like this? I don't forget these sessions for days because it hurts to sit down, but they have helped me and saved our marriage. I will be receiving my maintence tonight and believe it or not I am looking foward to it because my behavior has been poor. Ben Dugan January 12, at 1: And it works quite well.